World's 40 best lessons

1.    How did you learn to do that?
2.    Will you teach me how to do that?
3.    What are you Felling right now?
4.    What are you learning from those feelings?
5.    What did you learn from answering that question?
6.    What two or three things about that person / event / situation are you most pleased with?
7.    What areas of your performance are you most pleased with?
8.    In what ways are you looking forward to enhancing your performance during the next test or month or year?
9.    What do you feel are your greatest attributes?
10.    What have you done today that you would like to acknowledge yourself for?
11.    What do think we should do?
12.    In what ways could I be most helpful to you right now?
13.    How do think you’ll feel if you do that?
14.    What will likely happen if you do that? Are those the results you want most?
15.    How do you think so-end-so will feel if you do that ?
16.    What are the qualities that character (cartoon, comic, TV, movie, story, etc.) has that you like the best? Which you like the least? Why?
17.    Who else will benefit if you do that?
18.    In What other ways could we solve this problem?
19.    What do you think would happen if we did it this way ?
20.    What would you do if……. (fell ill before exam; didn’t perform well in this test; friends pressurize you for smoking; mummy is very angry; friend asked for cheating in the exam; neighbours are asking for help? Etc)
21.    How do you think other kids feel when someone dose something like that to them?
22.    What do you think is the best way to handle this?
23.    What would be the value / consequences of that option?
24.    What will the ideal look like when it’s complete?
25.    What part of that decision are you most comfortable about? Most uncomfortable about?
26.    What do we / you need to do to get where we / you would like to be?
27.    What are our resources for doing that?
28.    When have you done similar work excellently? Which resources you used?
29.    Which strength/ resource of yours you can use here/ in this situation?
30.    What are you most looking forward to in completing this task / project?
31.    What is the value to you when you complete this project?
32.    How can you do this better? Why would you like to do this better?
33.    Why was doing this work excellently so important to you?
34.    What other things would you like to do excellently?
35.    What do you like in your friends? Would you like to have all those positive qualities in you. How will you develop them?
36.    In what ways will you like to be different to your father/ mother? In what ways similar?
37.    How can you achieve something today that you will be proud of? What will that be? What did you achieve today that you are proud of?
38.    What would your favorite character be like if you made up a comic book {or book or TV show or movie}?
39.    Who would you invite to visit our house if you could choose anyone you want?
40.    AND WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN THEN ? {this can be asked as a follow-up to any string of questions for us far out  into time as the child can conceive at his age.?}